At the heart of many child behavioral problems there is a parental or adult issue that needs to be resolved. It helps if you recognize when you are projecting your own experiences onto your child. Whether as adults we look back at childhood with pleasure or dread, our legacy will impact on our own attitudes and experiences as parents. It is important that we understand our own issues so that we are able to manage our emotions when caring for our children. At the heart of many child behavioral problems there is a parental or adult issue that needs to be resolved. It helps if you recognize when you are projecting your own experiences onto your child. Whether as adults we look back at childhood with pleasure or dread, our legacy will impact on our own attitudes and experiences as parents. It is important that we understand our own issues so that we are able to manage our emotions when caring for our children. - Your toddler MONTH BY MONTH, 36쪽.
타냐 바이런이 쓴 육아서를 원서로 보고 있다. 아이와 상호작용하며 감정적으로 힘들 때마다 내 어린 시절을 돌아보게 된다. 부정적인 영향을 미치지 않으려고 애써도 해결되지 않은 내 안의 문제가 어쩔 수 없이 아이에게 영향을 미치게 되는 것 같다. 가급적 많이 놀아주고 아이와 함께 하는 시간의 양을 늘리며 부정적 영향을 상쇄시키려 애쓴다.
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