If you cannot say anything nice, it is better to say nothing. Do you agree with it?

I agree with the opinion some points, but others not. How much we open our inner voice to another depends on the depth of the relationship.

1. The depth of relationship is not deep.
2. A slightly deep.
3. Very deep.

If the depth is not deep and also we don’t want to develop the relationship, there is no meaning of saying nice things to others as well as saying bad things. But If we want to develop the relationship, I think expressing a little bit good feeling to the other through using positive feedback is helpful.

We needs to say nothing if we couldn’t say nicely to the other who connects with us in a slightly deep relationship. Because some people feel hurt when they interpret other’s trivial comments or behavior to them badly. We have to talk or behave carefully so that don’t make any mistake. But if we want to make the relationship more deepest way, it is important that we express our sincere and check the other’s responses to communicate.

In the very deep relationship, we have to talk honestly like in a relationship with a spouse or other family member. To make a healthy relationship, we express our deepest feelings and thoughts even if the other doesn’t want to listen. Because only in this way of active communication enables us to connect with other’s heart and to understand it. Of course, there are many risks this kind of communication so we will be likely to avoid it. It’s easier said than done. But if we can respect the other in any way, it’s not impossible.